Every girl can agree with me that when you fall for someone, you want her to catch you. What happens when they don't? What happens when they just let you fall? You end up with a broken heart. They all hurt just the same, just people deal with them differently. When you are hurt by one you care about, even if they don't know it yet.
Every girl has had their heart broken at least once or twice, by the people that put it back together again. Every time I seem to let someone in, all it does is backfire in my face. Who knows why I keep doing it? I should know, but I don't. No matter how hard I try to put up every guard up, they all seem to break down when I think I might have found a nice guy. It somehow always blowing up in my face and they becomes a dick. No matter how hard I seem to try. Nothing works, getting that person that broke your heart out of your head. You think about it all the time. What if things were different? Why did this happen?
You can’t change people’s minds. You can’t make someone care about you. As a girl, you just have to hope and pray that one day you will find the right guy, and that he won't let you go for the world. Every girl in my opinion deserves a guy that would hold her when she's crying, love her when she's angry, and kiss her when she needs to just be reminded that your always there for her when she needs you. Through it all, that mean's everything guy's. True love won't ever give you a heart break, so when your heart stops breaking, and its because of a boy, don't let him out of your site, don't let anything or anyone come between you and that boy.
I believe there is such thing as true love and love at first site. Even, if you don't. It took two weeks together, that’s it, two weeks for me to care about you. Now, you may have hurt me, so I know two things. One you aren't the prince to stop the hurt, and two you’re too much of a coward to be a man and tell someone how you really feel. Either way, guys will hurt you. It's what you do with that pain that really matters. Revenge is sweet, but finding someone else, might be sweeter.
Everyone will get a broken heart. Some may come more then others, but the right person, won't ever make you cry twice over something that they have done. If they do, then maybe they aren't the right person for you. I strongly believe that there is a person out there for every girl and every guy. It's just finding that person is the hard part. You may have to kiss a few frogs, before you find your prince. In the end, finding the one. Will be worth it.
Andrea, This is really good and so true!!! Who hasn't had their heart broken honestly? I'm just like you anytime it seems like it's going good it takes a turn for the worse and that perfect guy turns into a total douche!!! I try not to be picky with boys i have a lot of standards and the one time I finally listened to my friend and let them go I got hooked and my heart broken! Boys boys boys you can't live with them you can't live without them!!! Good work can't wait to see some more of your writing!!! (:
ReplyDeleteAndrea, your post was really good and 100% the truth! I actually posted a blog on mine that is very similar to this one! Guys can be such tools and they don't realize the impact they have on a girl let alone how easy it is for a girl to fall for them. Most girls just want to be loved and then loved in return. We are exactly alike when it comes to getting hurt numerous times and attempting to put up walls but I always let my guard down when I think that I meet a nice guy! I haven't had any luck so far though! I hope you have better luck in the near future!
ReplyDeleteBreanne (BCLUW High School)
I think you should be picky. I mean. Get the guy you want, and if he comes with a few imperfections. Thats okay, but don't just give your heart to anyone. Make it someone worth while. :)
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